Learn What Your State Requires for a Divorce.
- Many states have residency requirements, which means you need to file for divorce where you or your spouse live. You may need to have lived in the state for a set period of time before filing for divorce, such as one year.
Know State Laws Governing Property Division, Support.
- States have default rules that apply if you and your spouse cannot agree on the issues raised by ending your marriage. Equitable distribution states divide marital property and debt fairly but not necessarily equally while community property states divide marital property and debt on a 50/50 basis.
Find A Lawyer.
- Both you and your spouse should be represented by a family law attorney. Your lawyer protects your rights during divorce and will help to make decisions based on what is best for you.
Think About The Long Term.
- Do not only consider legal issues that seem relevant right now. It is important to think about the future, like whether you want to get your fair share of retirement accounts or pension money.
The Things You Don’t Want to Do:
- Do not put your kids in the middle.
- Don’t hide assets. There are laws requiring you to disclose financials.
- Don’t drain bank accounts. The court will decide how to divide assets.
- Don’t miss court hearings. You need to show up.
- Don’t ignore court orders. If the court requires you to provide documents, be sure to follow the requirements. Failing to do so could have legal consequences.
Cooper Levenson is a full-service law firm established in 1957. Cynthia N. Grob, Esq., a partner with nearly 20 years of experience in family law, can be reached at cgrob@cooperlevenson.com or by calling 856-857-5538.