The divorce process can be stressful and confusing. When considering a divorce, it is important to stay organized and ensure that you don’t overlook something important.
Focus On Your Children
- Think about the best ways to reduce the impact of a divorce on your children. Plan how you want to divide parenting time with the other parent. Don’t involve the children in the divorce battle as it can be upsetting and unfair.
Obtain Three Months of Financial Resources
- Save enough money to pay for your expenses for at least three months if you are the spouse who has limited access to financial resources. You will need to have cash available if you are cut off from finances when your divorce begins. You can obtain financial support once your divorce process is underway, but you need to plan to have cash until that happens.
Obtain The Best Legal Advice
- Find an attorney with the skills and reputation you need to assist in your divorce. It is critical to obtain the best representation during a divorce and ensure your relationship is a good fit.
Develop a Safety Plan To Guard Against Domestic Violence
- It’s possible violence can happen during a divorce and you can file a protection order if needed. However, the cases that start with filing a protection order keeping your spouse from your home and children can affect the divorce process making it highly contested. Don’t file a protection order unless it is necessary.
Make Sure You Have A Credit Card
- Apply for a credit card in your name only. Your spouse may cut access to your line of credit when you file for divorce. If you have available credit, it will help you pay for things while attorneys work to get your temporary financial support.
Find Support Among Family and Friends
- It is important to have a support system during a divorce. Do you know the people who will support you?
Be Respectful and Civil During A Divorce
- Just because you file for divorce doesn’t mean you won’t see the person again. It’s important to avoid making statements in anger. Never send emails if you are upset or angry.
Cooper Levenson is a full-service law firm established in 1957. Cynthia N. Grob, Esq., a partner with nearly 20 years of experience in family law, can be reached at cgrob@cooperlevenson.com or by calling 856-857-5538.
